Lost in the Shuffle
We’re at the end of the year. Again. I don’t know why that always surprises me. It’s not like...
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Category: Food for thought
Won’t Someone Please Think of the Cookies?!?!
If you follow The Big Gay Architect or Spotted Dog, you know this time of year means cookies at my...
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Gobble Gobble
A few years ago, my stepmom shared with us kids my grandmother’s handwritten menu for...
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Giving Thanks
The Gay High Holy Day has passed, and we are off to the holiday races. I can tell because my...
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Shame Shame Shame
Life has a funny way of taking the odd turn now and then. This would be one of those “now” times....
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Making History
Welcome to Texas! We can’t talk about being queer. We can’t read about being queer. We can’t learn...
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Out of Office
Working with residential clients can be tricky. You get to be architect, friend, and...
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Stuck in the Loop
Picture it. Valentine’s Day. Cleburne, Texas, 2025. There’s a small kitchen fire in an elderly...
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Nancy Needs the Loo
Saying life in the U.S. is chaotic feels like an understatement. Especially when every day brings...
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Sweaty McSweatypants
I should just make that my moniker during the summer. Clearly, I am doomed to suffer every year...
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Freedom of the Road
Grandpa Paschall (Dad’s dad) lived into his early 80s, and much to my father’s chagrin, never gave...
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